Showing posts with label Jeanne Bice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jeanne Bice. Show all posts

November 7, 2011

Laugh, Smile and See the Good Side of Things

I often times miss the people I have had in my life's journey. Even on a beautiful day, with the sun shining and the sky bright blue and cloudless, my thoughts can turn to a memory and a face. I miss the person who is no longer here. I miss the voice, the words spoken, the smiles and the feeling of the comfort that they brought to the world. I miss Jeanne. I posted about her when first learning of her sudden passing away. I commented before, the manner in which she spoke reminded me so much of Mother. She had a such a big heart, she brought joy to those around her, she loved her children and she often spoke about how much she missed her husband, Butch. Her home was simply gorgeous. Stunning, yet comfortable, warm and welcoming. We shared a love of Country French design. She was whimsical which showed her magnificent sense of humor. Those that were her close friends and visited her home for meetings, dinners and holidays, often commented on how "at home" they felt and how stunning the colors were. Her home reflected her true nature. Now, it is silent......her laughter is missing. I hope it trancends to a perfect new owner. One that will reflect her zest for a good life and her happy thoughts.


The following was a loving tribute from Quacker Factory

Jeanne Bice loved life. From her childhood in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin-taking care of her baby brother Dick, all through her married years to her adoring Butch in Ripon, Wisconsin, raising her beloved Tim and Lee, Jeanne was surrounded by love. Everyone loved to be at Jeanne's house. That's where the party was-everyday.



Life was perfect, until that day when Butch suddenly died and left her with her two children, and decisions to make.


As she later wrote about it, she pulled herself up by her bra straps and started over. Again and again. She discovered that Happy wasn't a destination in life. 'Happy comes from the choices we make and the way we think on life's journey.'


Jeanne chose to love. She loved what she did-creating Quacker Factory clothes, with 'sparkle and shine'. Clothes that made people Happy.


She loved QVC. Everything about it. She loved the people: the executives who ran it, and the production people who worked so hard to make every show perfect. She loved the famous stars who appeared there, and had to pinch herself when others considered her one.



She loved the hosts of her shows, her buyers and all the people who worked with her and for her to make Quacker Factory clothes a reality. But most of all-above everything else-Jeanne loved the Quackers. 'They come as customers, they stay as friends,' she said over and over. Because that was how she felt. 'I owe everything I have to these women who believe in me.'


Jeanne loved the stories they told her. On the cruises, at live-audience shows, or on phone calls during the shows. She would sit and listen. She could relate to them. She knew the power of friends to help each other, support each other.


It never mattered who you were. Rich, famous, powerful or not-it didn't matter. Successful or struggling, size 4 or 44-it never mattered. She loved who you were inside. She had time for everyone.


In college Jeanne studied to become a teacher. She'd laugh when she'd tell the story of practice-teaching and discovered that kids had their own ideas about how to do things. She said she gave up teaching, but that's really not true.


Her most important lesson was that Jeanne Bice taught the world how to laugh and smile. She taught us how to look at the good side of things. She taught us to Dream. She taught us to Believe. She taught us to love ourselves; who we are, just as we are.



In the Rubber Duck Principle, Jeanne wrote this about Angels:


'Sometimes we feel that we are all alone, as life brings us challenges to overcome and hardships to bear. But when we least expect it, help can appear. It may be a kind word from a stranger or a phone call at just the right time, and
 suddenly we are surrounded by the loving grace of God.
Miracles happen everyday because angels are everywhere.'


On June 10, 2011, Jeanne joined the Angels who will make miracles happen forever.



June 14, 2011

The Sparkle and Shine of Jeanne

I have started to write this blog a few times and then thought, no, I  don't want this to be a "down time" or "depressing read." However, I AM sad. I AM down. I AM depressed. Perhaps I will hit the "publish button" or perhaps I will just keep this as a "draft"...I don't know.

As I grow older, I am finding it hard to let go of people I have grown to love. This includes people I have never met but have been a part of  my life...not many, but a few. Oh, there are people that were famous, people  that we grew up with and are no longer with us. You find yourself thinking that your life is altered a bit since you no longer hear of them, can see them or hear their voices.

But Jeanne touched my life so much more than that. I would guess that for the past twenty or so years, I would look forward to her words of wisdom, her homey sayings, like.."like pull yourself up by your bra straps, kid and enjoy life!" Jeanne envisioned happiness. She enjoyed life. She enjoyed her friends. She enjoyed her two children Tim and Lee, especially her daughter Lee. Finding herself a widow quite unexpectedly, with her beloved husband Butch, dying suddenly of a heart attack, she wondered how she would live her life with two small children and no skill to speak of. What an inspiration to us all that she began to design clothes and her small business grew into a dynamo of a company. It started as what the "Divine Miss M", calls, "Mommie dressing." A corduroy jacket with pumpkins for fall, a fat snowman wrapped in a knitted scarf for Christmas, a glittery snowflake for Winter and an animal print martini glass for summer. Yep! I love them all.

Mother and I used to watch her together as she laughed and chatted her way through an hour of "schlepping" her clothing line, sharing her memories along the way. Memories of life on a farm in Wisconsin, her children trick or treating, family Christmases or dying Easter eggs with Lee and Tim. Whatever holiday came round', she had a reason to decorate her home and celebrate. Her glass was always half-full, never half-empty. Jeanne loved to laugh and at times, revealed her wicked sense of humor, telling risque jokes and acting coy as her belly laugh filled the room. I have watched her monthly videos as she sits with a favorite girlfriend and most often with Lee, telling all of her followers about that particular month's activity. I watch as Lee looks at her mother, revealing the joy in her eyes, as she listens to her mother spin her stories and share her memories. She often will turn to Lee and ask her what her memories are? They laugh often and they laugh together. The videos are all filmed at Jeanne's Boca Raton home, at her kitchen table, the bright yellow floral sofa in her living room, or by the pool surrounded by garden whimsy's! This will be very hard on Lee, I know.

Jeanne passed away at the age of 71 last Friday. She often spoke of angels. She felt they were surrounding you here on earth.

I figured out that Jeanne reminded me so much of Mother. Her beautiful, yet aged face, almost wrinkle free with that peaches and cream complexion. Some of her expressions. The way she would place her hand lovingly on her daughter's arm, as she was reminded of a funny story.....

It's funny isn't it that you can touch someone's life and not even know it?

Jeanne always said that she finally discovered that happy wasn't a destination in life.
 "Happy comes from the choices we make and the way we think on life's journey."


Many Blessings.......